“Hey Pete, I want you to teach me how to seduce a woman.”
I gave Jim a knowing look. ‘Just like the rest of ‘em,’ I said to myself.
Jim somehow was able to read my thoughts, and he furrowed his brow.
“I don’t think you heard me straight, Peter. I don’t care about being an expert at seducing women – I just want to find out how I can seduce one single woman.”
“Ah! You better tell me a little more, then.”
“Look, I don’t care what other men come to you for. I don’t want to learn tricks to pick up women. I don’t care about getting random girls to go to bed with me.”
“OK, Jim, take it easy! So, tell me exactly what it is you’re looking for?”
“There’s this woman. I know her, and… well, it’s her that I’m interested in seducing. And I only want her. I want to learn how to seduce her, and her alone. I don’t want anyone else. I want to play for keeps, and for the long term. I want to know how to make a woman interested for a long time.”
To the casual observer, the GrunerPDX.com is just full of horny guys looking to learn the most successful pickup tricks to reel in women for a one night stand.
But actually, this image is a long way from the truth.
The vast majority of men who come to us for help have a lot more in common with Jim than any “pick up artist” that sharks around the bars and clubs on a weekend looking for an easy score.
In common with many who come here, Jim was looking for help to overcome problems he had with just one particular, special woman.
How To Seduce A Woman – When You’re No Longer “Picking Up” Women
So, do you feel like Jim, too?
If you do, then I already know something about you – you’re beyond the stage when “pickups” were your thing. You aren’t a hormone-fueled teen whose tongue’s hanging out over any cute ass or set of tits that passed in front of you.
Uh-uh. Like Jim, you’ve grown up. And your wants and needs have grown up with you.
At this time in life, you’re looking for relationships that are deeper, you’re looking for love that’s much more meaningful…
You’re looking for total control, complete authority over your woman.
Does that description sound rather familiar?
If it does, then read on, because what comes next is going to give you just exactly what you’re looking for.
Armed with the knowledge I’ll give you, you can turn any girl into a purring kitten who’ll bow to your wishes as much as you’d like her to.
Sounds exciting, right?
But listen. Before we go any further there’s something you need to know (and you must agree to), and it’s this…
Now this isn’t going to make you feel great. But you’ve got to know the truth…
Most men who read the guide will completely fail to benefit from it.
Do you know why?
It’s because most guys that are looking to self-improve from online forums and blogs tend to make one very common error, and it’s this…
They totally overwhelm themselves by doing “research”, to the point where they completely fail to do anything about their problem.
They just jump around from one forum to another, reading blog after blog, without ever really learning a thing, let alone going out and putting any of the knowledge into practice.
So here’s the deal…
You need to know that if you want to do better around women you will need to ACT on the lessons that you’ll learn.
Being prepared but not taking action is like the pope having a condom dispenser fitted in his bathroom… it’s fucking useless. 🙂
So, before we go on, you’ve got to make me a promise…
After you’ve read this guide, I want you to go out there and actually do something with the knowledge you’ll get here.
How To Seduce Women – Free Action Checklist!
To make things easier, I’ve made this Action Checklist that contains all the contents of my guide in an easy-to-follow format.
The Checklist is really useful because you can quickly refer to it before you deploy any of the “how to seduce women” techniques to make sure you haven’t missed any of the important steps you need to take to seduce women.
How cool is that?
UPDATE: We have pulled the Action Checklist down for a revamp. Please check back later.
Before You Continue…
Let me ask you this…
How are you at keeping secrets?
I hope you are, because what you’re about to read here is most probably going to be brand new information to you.
How do I know? Well, there are two reasons:
- Firstly, the “source” for this information only recently agreed to let me reveal it exclusively here. (We’ll let you know what this “source” is later on)
- Secondly, this information is so far away from being “politically correct”, no one else would go anywhere near it. Except us, the fearless Gruner brothers, of course.
And you know what? The risk of a big backlash about this stuff is absolutely real.
Therefore, please don’t share this information with everyone – it’s for your eyes only for now.
We Are NOT About Harming Women In Any Way
A while ago we published our guide called “How To Get A Woman To Like You” and we got a ton of very negative publicity in the mainstream media who accused us of pushing hatred of women…
…but of course, that was just one big, fat lie.
I’ve lost count of the number of guys (some with their grateful girls in tow!) who paid homage to us here at our Sandy Boulevard office in downtown Portland to thank us for helping their relationships survive.
So, due to the “sensitive” nature of what I’m about to share next, I need to have you agree to the following condition before we go any further, OK?
You mustn’t ever use what you’re going to learn to intentionally harm women.
(Soon you’ll understand why I need you to agree to this as you read more below).
Do we have a deal?
Cool! 🙂 Let’s get right into it…
Everything started when this woman that Jim was dating (let’s refer to her as Melissa) sent him a text:
“I’ve got to leave, J. We’re no good 4 each other. Good bye. M”
That one short message sent Jim into a deep depression and he felt like his world was shattered.
Poor Jim! As he held up his phone to show me that breakup text there were tears glistening in his eyes.
I’ve led the underground Portland Self Improvement Group since 2009, and I’ve been a witness to scenes like this dozens of times…
… but seeing grown men like Jim on the verge of tears still unnerves me, I have to admit.
And yet almost all these emotional melt downs are totally unnecessary…
Because I know of a method which solves the problem like a precision military strike.
Guys like Jim don’t have to suffer all this despair if they only had the knowledge that I have. It’s totally unnecessary!
And guess what? Just like what I’ve done with Jim, I’m going to share that knowledge with you now.
Why You Can’t Take Anything From A Woman At Face Value
While you develop the skills needed to attract and seduce women, here’s what you’ll soon find out…
Things women say are often not actually what they mean.
For example, let’s take a look at that text message that Melissa sent to Jim.
It was a clear breakup message, wasn’t it?
Well, here’s another view of the situation I want you to think about for a moment:
Why would this woman act like a diva and send a text telling you she’s “got to leave”, when… she just could have… you know… gone?!
What’s really going on there with Melissa?
Here’s what’s really happened…
It’s clear that she was giving poor ol’ Jim a test, seeing if he’d swallow that bait… seeing if he would beg her not to leave, promise to jump through a few hoops on the way.
And you know what?
Jim’s case was not exactly a one-off, either.
I have to confess that women I used to go out with pulled the same kind of bullshit on me, too.
Guess what? I totally deserved it. And I’ll tell you why…
I deserved every bit of the abuse I got back then because I was a cowardly, pussified little weed.
I was a sucker for all kinds of pain and misery.
But then I found total clarity when I discovered this “System”. And now my world’s a very different place…
(I’ll share with you what this “System” is in a while.)
I found that if you go by the playbook, follow the “System” exactly, women who threatened to leave would come back to me. Every. Fucking. Time. Seriously!
After a week’s worth of intense coaching with me, Jim learned the “System” too and he immediately used what he’d learned on Melissa.
I think you’ve probably guessed what happened after that…
Melissa came crawling back to dear old Jimmy, crying tears of remorse and begging forgiveness. 🙂
It must be such a scene, and I wish I was there to witness it!
So, what is this intriguing “System”? What is the secret sauce?
This, my friend, is what you are about to discover. Buckle up! 🙂
The “Source” And “System” Revealed…
The “Source” for this knowledge is my mentor (and good friend) Derek Rake.
And the “System” he developed is called the Shogun Method.
I had discovered Derek by pure chance. You see, I’d been hunting down the most powerful seduction systems on the planet for years, and then fate brought me to San Diego and to Derek.
I kid you not – learning how to seduce women from Derek Rake himself was like being given a boxing class by Mike Tyson.
Derek was the one who opened my eyes to the truth:
- “Pickup Artist” tricks are shit, and
- Mind Control seduction techniques are truly where it’s at!
If Mind Control is something new to you, and you’re unsure how it’s different from “pickup” techniques then you can watch this Online Masterclass – it will provide you with a solid grounding in how Mind Control can quickly make women subservient to your demands. (You’ll also learn the legendary Fractionation tactic – which deserves its own guide here on GrunerPDX.com.)
Seriously, go watch that Masterclass so that you’ll get up to speed.
Now back to my story with Derek Rake…
Shogun Method is an amazing system and so I was absolutely determined to suck out every piece of information I could from Derek when I was with him!
And so I asked him: “Derek, what is the very best way for a man to seduce women?”
The answer he gave was shocking… I felt like I was hit by a truck!
“Jimmy, you have to understand. The whole concept of “attraction”… it’s bullshit!”
He met my confused mumbling with a sly smile.
“Being attracted is a short play. Say a woman finds you attractive, right now. It’s as easy for her to fall in love now as it is for her to fall out again tomorrow.“
Now I have to confess up until then I had naively thought that once I had managed to get a woman to like me, my work was done… we’d ride off over the horizon, arm in arm. Derek had started to make me see why it was that I kept failing when it came to women…
“OK, Derek, so what IS the secret to making a woman fall in love and STAY that way,” I asked.
Again, his reply shook me at the core:
“Matt, my friend, it’s not enough to seduce the girl. You need to make her your emotional slave.”
Wow… just wow.
How To Seduce A Woman: By Enslaving Her
Now let’s not beat around the bush here. “Seduction” is pretty controversial on its own…
… but “Enslavement“? That’s riding the non-stop express train to Controversy Town.
But now at least I understood why Derek Rake had so many haters, why they accused him (falsely) of promoting the ill-treatment of women.
Derek was reading my mind.
“Matt, believe me, when I realized this I was about as shocked and surprised as you look right now. But as time has gone on, I’ve learned to accept that this is the fundamental reality about women …unpleasant as it seems.”
Flying back to DC after my trip to San Diego I couldn’t help replaying Derek’s words over and over in my mind.
It was then that everything suddenly shone perfectly clear inside my head. A moment of complete enlightenment.
For me it was a revelation that would change my life:
The very best way for a man to seduce any woman is simply to make her his emotional slave.
If a woman is enslaved to you emotionally then her devotion is complete and assured.
Now, before your imagination runs away with you here, let’s clarify:
This is NOT about physical restraint. It really should be obvious we are NOT talking about locking anyone away, or restricting movement or anything physical at all.
What we’re talking about here is emotional enslavement.
How To Seduce A Woman By Enslaving Her (Emotionally)
If a woman is emotionally enslaved to you it means she is dependent upon you for her survival and happiness.
Let’s put it in a simpler way: if you emotionally enslave a woman then she’ll need you just as much as she needs air or water.
Think about it. That’s pretty damn hardcore, right?
OK, now that you’ve understood the concept, how can you emotionally enslave women?
The full strategy to achieve enslavement is laid out in Derek’s Shogun Method, but here’s the summary:
- Step One: Segregate her from the outside world.
- Step Two: Replace her identity.
Let’s go through each of these steps now…
To successfully enslave women, your first step must be to segregate them. This entails detaching them from their current world, and putting yourself as the primary focus of their life.
Now this sounds like it might be a rather daunting task, but by using the “Us Versus The World” routine contained in the Shogun Method – you can find this towards the back of Module Seven – this task actually becomes fairly straightforward.
If your woman already has a boyfriend you’ll find that she will be ready to break all ties to him so she can be with you. Sounds awesome, right?
After this step, then what?
Well, when you have successfully segregated her, you must then “seal the deal” and remove her existing identity by changing it out for one that is totally subservient.
With the Shogun Method, you accomplish this using what’s known as a “Black Rose Sequence”.
Shogun Method: Simply, It’s One Step At A Time
OK, let’s take a breather now.
I suspect you might be feeling somewhat overwhelmed right now. There’s been a lot of new information here… and so it’s perfectly normal to feel out of your depth.
The key here is to take just one step each time. (Don’t worry, I will take you by the hand and show you the way.)
For now, just think of all the possibilities that will open to you once you’ve gained this ability…
An ability to control women and make them do your bidding.
Exciting, ain’t it?
OK, so what’s the next move?
Well, let’s just take a moment to recap what we’ve learned:
- In order to seduce women, you must emotionally enslave them.
- To do this, first, you must segregate them from their world.
- Once this is complete, you must replace her current identity for one that’s subservient to you.
Makes sense so far?
As you should already realize by now, the “Mind Control” way of seducing women is entirely different from conventional dating and “Pickup Artist” tripe you can find everywhere on the internet these days.
Pick Your Options Right Now
Now, it’s all down to you. As I see it, you’ve got two options:
Option #1 – Continue doing exactly as you have been doing.
By logic, you’ll keep on getting whatever results you’ve always gotten. No surprises there, right? Maybe you’re happy with that, and where you are now… and that’s perfectly fine.
Or, you can choose the smarter Option #2…
Option #2 – Use Mind Control techniques and see how well they perform for you.
If this is what you choose then you can forget the usual dating tips bullshit… you know, the “be confident”, “pay attention to your clothing”, “be a great listener”, blah, blah, blah.
No, you will take things to a whole new level and use bleeding edge Enslavement techniques which give YOU the power, the control and the dominance over women.
Decision time… which is it to be, my friend?
If it’s Option #1 you pick, then, well, back to Google with you. Best of luck. Thanks for coming this far.
But if you’ve decided that you’re going to grab Option #2, then let’s continue. 🙂
Watch The Online Masterclass On Fractionation
Earlier on I told you that there’s an easy step you could take that will give you a “jump start” in using Mind Control on women. And so here it is!
In this Online Masterclass, you’ll learn how to use Mind Control techniques (including the legendary Fractionation trick) to quickly make a woman fall in love with you. To see if you QUALIFY for this Masterclass, click this link now –
Then, enter your email at the page that opens.
Please be aware that due to the rather controversial nature of the material, we do reserve a right to remove access to the Masterclass without notice. (So, if the above link is no longer live, it means we’ve have had to cancel the Masterclass. Thanks for your understanding.)
Peter Gruner (GrunerPDX.com founder)
PS: We’ve been sent many emails with questions on how you can employ seduction techniques on women in a variety of scenarios, and so here are the answers to the questions that were sent in. Enjoy!
Frequently Asked Questions
How To Seduce A Woman Who Has Rejected You?
Ah, we’ve all been there. Rejection fucking sucks… there’s no question about it!
But you know what? Rejection isn’t the big deal it can first seem. And here’s why…
You need to learn that rejection isn’t permanent.
I think you probably know that, by nature, women are pretty fickle creatures.
But do you also know that by using that fickle nature it’s possible to turn the situation around completely in your favor? It’s true!
Inside Derek Rake’s Shogun Method there’s a fantastic strategy which covers this exact situation we can summarize as follows:
- “Accept” your rejection. You respond with something like “yeah, I guess you’re right” and “it probably makes sense… I think I made a mistake.” This should throw her off balance, and it creates a little intrigue. Be really vague (use words such as “perhaps”, “probably”, “maybe”) – keep the woman guessing as to your REAL intentions.
- Initiate “Freeze Out”. Stop contact with her for a minimum of 14 days. Trust me… 80% of the time she’ll be the one trying to make contact with you.
- “Fractionate” her. When the woman gets in contact with you, immediately instigate a sequence of Fractionation routines. (Learn this from Derek Rake’s Online Masterclass link up above, or click here.) Here’s where you can exploit that intrigue you built during the first two previous steps.
If you do this right, emotions will then overrule rational thinking, and you’ll find that your “rejection” will soon be just a distant memory. Give it a shot!
How To Seduce A Woman Who Isn’t Interested In You?
Let’s clear something up…
When you’re told she’s “just not interested”, you’ve got to take it as what it is – a rejection.
Just follow all the three steps outlined above and watch how things unfold… in your favor!
How To Seduce An Older Woman?
Ever hear phrases like… “You’re a little young for me” or “Right now I need a relationship with someone a little more mature”?
Yeah? Well, these are simply woman-speak for “you’re not attractive enough for me”. It’s really not because of your age!
Remember, women are primarily driven by emotions. They are never driven by reason.
Next time you’re on the receiving end of an excuse like these, don’t worry about it.
It’s just another way for women to reject you. So, if you do things the right way (take the three steps I’ve shared with you earlier), you’ll soon find that objections like this simply melting away before your eyes.
How To Seduce A Woman Who Already Has A boyfriend
OK, let’s get real now… a worthwhile woman doesn’t stay on her own for very long.
And you know what? Women who have boyfriends are still fair game. And here’s why…
Eventually, the decision is for HER to make whether she wants to be with you or not. You’re just giving her a choice, that’s all. You’re not forcing her to anything she doesn’t want, right?
OK, so how to go about seducing a woman with a boyfriend?
It’s quite simple actually: all you need to do is to make her doubt her boyfriend’s qualities as a long-term partner.
You can accomplish this in two steps:
- First, make her think about the characteristics of her IDEAL Get her to picture clearly in her mind: his behaviour, his looks, and also how he makes her FEEL.
- Then, at every opportunity, get her to compare her boyfriend with the IDEAL partner that she has described to you.
And you know what? The boyfriend will NEVER match up to the IDEAL image she’s painted in her head.
Why? Well, it’s because of a known psychological flaw in women’, where IDEALS are always some fantasy projection that’s far removed from the real world.
And when you do this frequently enough, she will soon begin to doubt the boyfriend. Soon enough, cracks will begin to appear in the relationship.
Pretty sneaky, I know.
Remember… all is fair in war and love. If you’re not using this or similar Boyfriend Destroying techniques on that bastard, you better believe that somebody else is using ‘em to hurt you!
(As a side note, inside the Shogun Method, there are two Boyfriend Destroyer scripts you can use – find them in the Module 6 appendix.)
How To Seduce A Married Woman?
OK, time to get serious here. I absolutely DO NOT condone the use of these materials to break a marriage apart.
If you’re dead serious about seducing a married woman and getting her to completely destroy her marriage, then you must think long and hard about what you intend to do.
Make no mistake… the consequences can be extremely serious. There’s a lot at stake here, come on!
Nevertheless, there’s obviously nothing I can do to stop you. Truth be told… the same techniques I’ve shared with you WILL work even on married women.
Remember that you take complete responsibility for the outcome of your actions. So, don’t blame me if you find her drunk husband at your door at 3am with a baseball bat in hand. Just sayin’.
How To Seduce A Woman Via Text
Here’s the deal. Trying to seduce a woman via text message may be a bad idea.
You see, there’s a real risk that you think everything’s going well that you might just “over-text” her.
Worse, she might even start to think of you as her “text buddy”.
And that, my friend, is like landing in the electronic friend zone.
You don’t want that to happen, right?
So, because of this risk, I don’t recommend seduction using texts ALONE.
Your primary contact with her should be face to face. And as such, texts should always be secondary.
In short, use texting to complement your in-person seduction.
How To Seduce A Woman Online
The same advice applies. Everything mentioned in the context of texting is equally applicable to all electronic, written communications – email, Facebook Messenger, Skype, text…
Just be very wary of turning into her “online buddy”.
How To Seduce A Woman By Touching Her
There’s no doubt that touching is a vital component of seduction.
You must be aware, however, of the two huge potential pitfalls around touching women as part of seduction:
- Because of past experiences, some women may be very sensitive and can interpret your touch as harassment.
- Sometimes your touching can distract her from your most powerful Mind Control seduction tools… your words.
To avoid these issues, touch only non-sexual places.
These non-sexual places include:
These are the areas that you can touch but only if you’ve built some rapport with her:
- Outer Thighs
These areas are completely no-no (unless, of course, you’re already escalating physically with her) –
- Inner Thighs
How To Seduce Women Using Body Language
“Communication is 20% verbal, and 80% non-verbal.”
In fact, you need to put that statement on its head. 80% of seduction is about what you are saying and how you say it. Seriously!
Of course, that’s not to say that body language isn’t important.
So here’s the deal…
If you naturally gifted at body language, then that’s great. Carry on. It can only do you good…
But if you don’t, then don’t worry about it.
Concentrate on the vital 80% and don’t distract yourself (or her) by consciously trying to maintain good body language.
In my experience, once you learn how to use your words effectively and converse well with women, you naturally start to have attractive body language without having to think about it.
In short: don’t sweat it!
How To Seduce Women With Words
How to seduce a woman with words? Simple answer: use Fractionation.
Fractionation is a remarkably powerful Mind Control technique. It takes a woman on an emotional rollercoaster ride using straightforward storytelling concepts with remarkable results…
… by turning her into your emotional slave!
The good news that Fractionation can be quite simple to use. All you need are a series of proven lines and stories which will make her go through that emotional rollercoaster with you.
And you know what? There’s even a variant known as “One Sentence Fractionation” that does what it says – everything you need condensed into just one sentence! No brainer, right?
(If you have access to Shogun Method, you can find the “One Sentence Fractionation” technique in the quick start section of the Fractionation module.)
To get going with this technique, join this Online Masterclass with Derek Rake by clicking here.